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Family Growth

Who knew that we would take family planning to a whole new level.  We decided about three years ago that we were more serious about adopting and were going to open our home.  We checked in with our children and they were all in support of the idea.

This year in January we started fostering 4 little children and we really hope we can give them a forever home.

There are more details about this on my personal blog...Kay's Blog

We are a family of 9 now, yes Holger and I have 7 children.  The challenges and the beauty of this is something we are working with every single day.

We are not that young anymore...


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