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The Story Continues...





 On the 31st of March 2018 Holger and I will have been foster parents for a year officially with the paper work behind us.  The shock of the tale is we really thought we would be able to give all of these children a forever home.  We intended to adopt, we were told that it was a possibility...







Our hearts have had to shift and we have decided to embrace these children as if they are adopted and love them with our whole hearts even if they will not live with us forever.  They each have a home and we teach them about belonging to two families.






Each one of these little lives have impacted our family and we will never be the same.  We have learnt so much about overcoming, hope, joy and resilience.

These little lives are priceless and we want the best for each of them.  Please continue to keep us all in your prayers. 

Especially keep our marriage in prayer that we would display the heart of GOD!

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